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	<title>Comments on: Are you talking yourself out of business?</title>
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		<title>By: danielle</title>
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		<dc:creator>danielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 18:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Deb!

I think you&#039;re right. It is important to be a real person, especially when you are a one-person business! I think this goes for designers, hair stylists, actors, etc. When someone hires your business, they are hiring YOU - so there&#039;s no sense in trying to hide your personality.

While I agree that it&#039;s important to be authentic and honest with clients, it can be really counterproductive to &quot;talk down&quot; about yourself and your work. I think it&#039;s all about choosing your words carefully and thinking about the context you&#039;re presenting the self-criticism in.

&quot;This project didn&#039;t turn out very well.&quot;
vs.
&quot;On this project, I think we could have improved x, y, and z.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Deb!</p>
<p>I think you&#8217;re right. It is important to be a real person, especially when you are a one-person business! I think this goes for designers, hair stylists, actors, etc. When someone hires your business, they are hiring YOU &#8211; so there&#8217;s no sense in trying to hide your personality.</p>
<p>While I agree that it&#8217;s important to be authentic and honest with clients, it can be really counterproductive to &#8220;talk down&#8221; about yourself and your work. I think it&#8217;s all about choosing your words carefully and thinking about the context you&#8217;re presenting the self-criticism in.</p>
<p>&#8220;This project didn&#8217;t turn out very well.&#8221;<br />
vs.<br />
&#8220;On this project, I think we could have improved x, y, and z.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Deb Pang Davis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb Pang Davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 05:46:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The part about how she would never let anyone give her a massage = huge cringe factor and then saying she would never expose a client? Eew.

I do agree that in this day of &quot;real time&quot; information, thinking first about what you are going to share is important.

I also think that sharing some insecurities or being honest /upfront with your potential clients shows you are a real person.

Good food for thought!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The part about how she would never let anyone give her a massage = huge cringe factor and then saying she would never expose a client? Eew.</p>
<p>I do agree that in this day of &#8220;real time&#8221; information, thinking first about what you are going to share is important.</p>
<p>I also think that sharing some insecurities or being honest /upfront with your potential clients shows you are a real person.</p>
<p>Good food for thought!</p>
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